I have a problem. Don't be so quick to judge the problem. I heard that they have a pill for this cure now. Wonder what it cures the anxiety to have sex or the sensitivity while having sex? I don't claim to be a sexologist or a sex coach but I feel that this trivial matter has been blown out of proportion and it is effecting us adversely. A simple problem that can be solved with a girlfriend or the left hand for the less resourceful. Yes we need to take this matter into our hands. We cannot rely on cheap porn VCD's and unrestrained acts of football WAGS to dictate what is sex. There needs to be a concerted effort to educate all those that don't want to face the ugly truth about their sexuality.
The sex trade is worth 1.2 Billion Ringgit a year in Klang Valley, that is more than enough to tell you that some public listed companies are actively profiting. This is not including the human trafficking for sex that is taking place daily. This staggering amount is purely from willing young women from the rural kampungs and villages earning a luxurious living in the city. A friend from the UK asked why are there so many Unisex saloons in KL(Jalan Bukit Bintang)? I wanted to tell her that this is where the retirement monies are stashed for most of the expired Roxanne's.
Form the dawn of time the sex trade has been catering for men's incapability of having penial control. Sex is an act that everyone has to get into at some point in time unless you are a priest of some sort. Some are more explicit than others who demand that it is a serious masculine need once every moon cycle. The wifes either have to be accustomed to the idea of their men frequenting prostitutes or to submit themselves lawfully. Feeling incapable of confronting the matter with their spouses, the problem continues. Hoards of men turn to each other to find the best holes in town while leaving the beautiful ones at home. Women are not excluded.
Ejaculation is actually a meter that measures the levels of ease that one is feeling when having sex. However, the scale is reversed for women but the same applies. Infrequent acquaintanceship leads to a very quick anxiety that leaves as soon as it came. Sensitive touches creates mixed feelings which is most often mistakenly interpreted as orgasm that remains for a brief moment. The trace of it is felt when it has left and that is too late.
Frequent indulgence will make the feeling last a little longer than a brief moment. Just like any other feeling the brain needs time to get it registered in its pattern for recognitions. To recognize the feeling as a pattern and then creating a natural response that is befitting its nature. This is like any other act and it takes practice, education, bravery, effort, planning, roll playing and finally rehearsal. Without doing any of these even Micheal Schumacher would have failed while driving for the prancing horse.
When the feeling of an orgasm has been registered in your brain, you are probably a porn star. Every hole-li man's dream. The journey to reach this state depends on how one is able to balance morality and sexual inadequate openness. Even I am pushing my boundaries, hopefully with no remorse later. If you want to know why the Kama-Sutra was written then you should know it is a book that helps with your sexuality.
Don't believe the profiteers, look at what they have reduced Yoga to an aerobic routine sold to yuppies. The Kama-Sutra is not a book of sex positions. It releases your sexuality by describing your profile. Then prescribing what is the best that suites your profile. The goal of the Kama-Sutra is to liberate you from the sewer so that you can concentrate on higher ideas. There are many opportunities to address this problem and a pill is definitely not the answer. Be happy sexually.
No comments:
Post a Comment